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Friday, August 2, 2013

God didn't create us to hate

Six years ago I moved to Las Colinas.  Fortunately, there was a nice little CVS pharmacy within walking distance to my house.  So naturally, it made sense to fill my prescriptions there.  It was a very long hot summer day, six summers ago, when I noticed that I was not being treated with the care that I felt I should be receiving.  It aggravated me.  It frustrated me.  It made me want to go on a tyrant.  Eventually, my prescriptions were filled and I left the store in haste.  What I didn't realize though, is that at some point, during my visit to the CVS pharmacy on that day, I had left with much more than just a "bag" of prescriptions.  In Fact, the bag, or baggage, I should say, that I carried with me home on that day would actually turn out to be much more heavier than any bag of prescriptions that I had ever carried in my entire life.  This baggage had a nasty odor to it.  The prescription medicines in this bag read "r-e-g-r-e-t, g-r-u-d-g-e, and h-a-t-e.  Unlike many of the prescriptions that I take, this bag of prescriptions never ran out.  It never needed refills.  It just remained there.  There always seemed to be plenty of these drugs lying around when I needed them the most.  Every  time I would go and get my medicines filled at the CVS, I would reopen this bag and allow it to harbor negative feelings toward one particular pharmacy tech at CVS.  For six years I harbored these negative feelings.  Until...tonight. 

I was asked by a friend to attend an EA meeting tonight.  When I got to the EA meeting, the pharmacy tech was there, sharing her story.  I wanted to run and hide, but instead, I listened.  As she began to share her story, her humble life, as a tech at CVS, her tiny and frail body being taken by a vicious cancer, it made me realize how unfair I had been to this woman for six years.  I couldn't believe I had let one day ruin my chances of being kind and loving to this woman who so desperately needed me to share God's love with her.  I felt horrible.  I didn't even stay after the meeting to talk.  I just left as quickly as I could.  Then I went home and started praying.  I asked God to bless this woman and her life.  I asked God to forgive me for the hate in my heart.  And then, I decided that I would write this woman a letter in which I was able to share God's love with her. 

So...tonight...our topic at EA was "Thanksgiving."  And tonight, I am very thankful for second chances.  I have a renewed opportunity, a second chance, to make right what I made wrong six years ago!  Praise God for that!!!

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